Your relationship doesn't end. How to communicate with your loved one in spirit.
I once asked a for help about a frustrating situation, and not only did I hear back from my friend in spirit - what she said in response made me laugh out loud. The situation resolved itself the next day. She heard me.
That's the thing about our loved ones in spirit. They haven't gone anywhere. Yes in physical form they have, but they remain with us in spirit.
And I get this doesn't help when we are grieving for our loved one. Losing a loved one is one of the worst things to go through. I get it. Like you, I have lost dear loved ones. What I do believe though, is that death is just a doorway. We seemingly take everything with us into the spirit world except our physical body, material possessions, and narrow human world view.
As the famous psychic medium John Edward says, when loved ones show up in spirit it's their way of letting you know they are okay. They cannot take away your grief, but can help you navigate it.
How to communicate with your loved ones in spirit
So here's how you can communicate with your loved one in spirit:
Letters - yes, write a letter to your loved one. Write down what is on your mind, what you didn’t get to say, release it from your mind and body. Know they have received this. Know it has been communicated to them. Then let it go.
Thoughts - yes, you can communicate silently through your mind. All communication in the spirit world is through thought. So just like talking to yourself in your mind throughout the day, flip this and talk with your thoughts to your loved one. Ask a question, or simply tell them you love them, miss them, how you are feeling. Find a quiet moment in the day to do this, or when no one else is around as you go about your day to day. You don’t need to set up some special spiritual ritual or space to do this.
Talking out loud - yes, you might look mad, but do it. They hear you. And why wouldn’t they? As my story shows. Our loved ones in spirit aren’t somewhere high up in the heavens. They are in the energy field that surrounds us. They hear you. They see you. Caveat: not all the time, like you can have a shower and know you have privacy! They are around for the important stuff and sometimes not so important stuff, and relay information to prove it. And this one, talking to our loved ones in spirt out loud feels good. It humanises the communication.
So give these few simple suggestions a go.
Most people won't hear a voice out loud or see someone in the physical world. Answers can be quite subtle, like a wholly formed thought that drops in, a voice in your head that sounds like yours, a song you “randomly” hear. Or sometimes not subtle at all - a new person enters your life, a change in direction you didn’t foresee or a situation resolves itself just like that. They heard you.
Believe in your ability to communicate to your loved one in spirit (and this includes your pets). You might be surprised by what happens when you do.
Let me know how you go in the comments below!
Til next time
Michelle
